Courtesy: My friends mail
Any type of relationship, whether it is between family members, people we work with, or friends, takes a lot of work to maintain and build upon. No two people are alike, or have the same exact interests. This must be taken into consideration when trying to maintain a relationship. Understanding and compassion also play a big role in improving a relationship that might be ending.
1. Understand that at times we come across as too needy and this is usually due to the fact that we don't want to be single. But sometimes spending time with ourselves is the best gift we can give ourselves. Being alone needn't mean being lonely.
2. Remember that the best relationships are based on living, loving and sharing. Sharing creates harmony in a relationship. Harmony and balance are a part of a good relationship structure.
3. Face difficulties and problems when they come up. Talk openly to each other without confessing ALL your sins. Avoid giving them your whole life story. Take time to get to know each other.
4. Be willing to take full responsibility for your own words and actions if you want your relationships to work.
5. Realise that relationships never really end - they just change. You are still in a relationship with each other it's just a different type of relationship. If you can accept the fact that you are now just friends - that too could be a very special kind of relationship.
6. Try to be more honest with them. Being more honest with them means that they will be more honest to you.
7. Spend more time with them. If they live far away, make a date with them at a place close to where they live.
8. When they are not feeling too good, offer to stay home with them to help them out.
9. Learn to be a good listener. When people can tell that you are truly listening to what they say (instead of pretending to pay attention until getting a turn to speak), they feel that you truly care and enjoy their company. Many of the most well-liked and cherished people are good listeners.
