Love Can Last Forever If You Want It To . . .

Love is the strongest and

Most fulfilling emotion possible.

It lets you share your goals, your desires, your experiences.

It lets you share your life with someone.

It lets you be yourself,

With someone who will always support you.

It lets you speak your innermost feelings to someone who understands you.

It lets you feel tenderness and warmth.

A wholeness that avoids loneliness.

Love lets you feel complete.

But in order to have

A successful love relationship

You must make a strong commitment to each other and love.

And you must do and feel everything within your mind and body

to make this commitment work.

You must be happy with yourself.

And you must understand yourself,

before you can expect someone else

to be happy with you or to understand you.

You must be honest about yourself and each other at all times.

And not hold any feelings back.

You must accept each other the way you are,

And not try to change each other.

You must be free to grow as individuals,

yet share your life as one.

But not live your life through each other.

You must follow your own principals and morals,

And not follow what societal roles tell you to do.

You must follow the philosophy that men and women are equal,

and not treat either person with inferiority in any way.
In order to have a lasting love relationship,

You must be together always in your heart,

but not necessarily always in your activities.

You must be proud of each other and love

and not be ashamed to show your sensitive feelings.

You must treat everyday spent with each other as special

and not take each other or your love for granted.

You must spend time talking with each other everyday

and not be too busy with outside events,

that you are too tired for each other.

You must understand each other’s moods and feelings

and not hurt each other intentionally,

but if your frustrations are taken out on each other,

You must both realize that it is not a personal attack.

You must be passionate with each other often

and not get into boring patterns.

You must continue to have fun and excitement with each other

and not be afraid to try new things.

You must always work at love and your love relationship

and not forget how important this relationship is,

or what you would feel like without it.

Love is the strongest

And most fulfilling emotion possible.

If you live

Your commitment to love.....

You will live your dreams.

My Old Diary

It was one of my routine where I was cleaning my shelf and came across this book... or should I call a diary.. This was very useful in those days where mobile phones were not the in thing. I used to have this book in my bag as it had the telephone numbers of my good friends...

I had this good habit (should I say good habit??... ) No.... interesting hobby of writing down some lines which I found to be interesting..

Here it is..

1. Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because you are different that each of us is special.


2. Do not set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.


3. Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life.


4. Do not give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other.


5. Do not be afraid to encounter risks. it is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.


6. Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give love, the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly.


7. Do not dismiss your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose.


8. Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going.


9. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.


10. It's nice to be important; but it is more important to be nice.


11. Great minds discuss ideas, Average minds discuss events, Small minds discuss people.


12. To handle yourself, use your mind. To handle others, use your heart.


13. Remember to Remember me. Forget to forget me. Even if you try to remember to forget me, I will never forget to remember to remind you to remember me.

They are not any different but it was nice to go thru it once again.

uff... Memories.... Memories... Memories...

100 memories, 200 jokes, 300 great times, 400 secrets, 1 reason.... BESTFRIENDS

Can it get better than this?

Wow! What a day it was......

A day filled with surprises!

Yes... It was my Bday (Oct 12th) and a special one coz it was the first one after I got committed and the other one of course was coz this was the 25th... Yes my Quarter Century... :) To start with I had someone in my doorstep @ 11:30 in the night (Can you beat that??? ) who had

a bouquet,

a chocolate cake and

another parcel (The Teddy) to be delivered to me from NC ofcourse!

A msg from UK @ 11:55 pm wishing me in his own way as he was sure the lines wud b busy @ the right moment... Little did he know that it was already engaged an hr earlier itself :) He did manage to call me too... Thanks Jay!

To add to this my parents also had a Vanilla cake ready for me so that I could cut @ 12.This cake cutting was telecasted live for my sis in Cuddalore, Jiju in Abu Dhabi and another one in NC.

After that we were speaking until 1:30 in the night after which he asked me to go ahead and catch up some sleep so that I can get up early the next day and dont miss atleast the last bus (07:45 am) to ofc!

I slept and managed to get up by the usual time (05:15 am) and I get a call in 15 mins. He asked me if I was in my room; I said yes I was. Then he asked me to lookup... I was confused... Excuse me! What are you trying to do.... He said don't get tensed :p ... Just lookup and towards ur right; find a cover and there is a gift waiting for me in it... I was SURPRISED...

Whats happening out here? Later on, found out that he had placed it carefully over there when he had come home a fortnight back. Wow! What a surprise it was! I find a Sony Ericssion W810i mobile waiting for me inside that cover.

And yeah got calls and messages from most of my friends and family. As usual Nary missed it this time too! He is being consistent... Every year I tell him that it is not on Oct 14th but on 12th... but he fails to believe me every year! But never mind he never fails to wish me on the 14th of Oct every year... Nary, I am not sure if u did get the date right this time atleast!

Cloud9, as its routine did the job of informing my colleagues abt my Bday.... So had to go to Foodworld and get a 5-Star pack for my colleagues. By the time I could send out a mail for the chocs... it was already time for lunch. So no point in sending out a mail for the chocs.. Thought I will send it out after 2pm. At arnd 12, I get a call from someone saying that he has a bouquet waiting for me @ Gate6. In a couple of minutes, I get another call from someone else this time and he says he has a Black Forest Cake waiting for me @ Gate6. Wow! What was happening?? I cudnt speak anythg much... I was running short of words.... I reach Gate 6 and wow!

What a bouquet it was!
And this is the Black Forest Cake!

And of course not to miss out the ecards that he had sent! Very creative and beautiful cards!

I loved it!

What a mindblowing day it was!

The Engagement

Because of you

My World is now whole

Because of you

Love lives in my soul

Because of you

I have laughter in my eyes

My love for you is pure

boundless through space and time

It grows stronger everyday

With the knowledge that you will always be mine...

Something only love can do . . .

Sometimes you might feel that you'll be happier alone..
But it's always nice to have someone to laze around with..

Someone to think about..

Someone to care about..

Someone to share your joy..

And someone to kiss..

So take a chance..

You'll never know what you will get..

Until you have really tried..

So if there's somebody you miss..

Tell them that you do..

Cause there's something only love can do.

What Do Women Really Want . . .

Interesting Title??

Well this is how it goes....

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him, but was moved by Arthur's youthful happiness. So he offered him freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer; if, after a year, he still had no answer, he would be killed. The question was: What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and, to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. Well, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everybody: the princess, the prostitutes, the priests, the wise men, the court jester. In all, he spoke with everyone but no one could give him a satisfactory answer. What most people did tell him was to consult the old witch, as only she would know the answer. The price would be high, since the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no alternative but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer his question, but he'd have to accept her price first: The old witch wanted to marry Gawain, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified: she was hunchbacked and awfully hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage water, often made obscene noises... He had never run across such a repugnant creature. He refused to force his friend to marry her and have to endure such a burden.

Gawain, upon learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He told him that nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table. Hence, their wedding was proclaimed, and the witch answered Arthur's question:What a woman really wants is to be able to be in charge of her own life. Everyone instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.

And so it went. The neighboring monarch spared Arthur's life and granted him total freedom. What a wedding Gawain and the witch had! Arthur was torn between relief and anguish. Gawain was proper as always, gentle and courteous. The old witch put her worst manners on display. She ate with her hands, belched and farted, and made everyone uncomfortable.The wedding night approached: Gawain, steeling himself for a horrific night, entered the bedroom. What a sight awaited! The most beautiful woman he'd ever seen lay before him! Gawain was astounded and asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her (when she'd been a witch), half the time she would be her horrible, deformed self, and the other half, she would be her beautiful maiden self. Which would he want her to be during the day and which during the night? What a cruel question? Gawain began to think of his predicament: During the day a beautiful woman to show off to his friend, but at night, in the privacy of his home, an old spooky witch? Or would he prefer having by day a hideous witch, but by night a beautiful woman to enjoy many intimate moments? What would you do?What Gawain chose follows below, but don't read until you've made your own choice.

Noble Gawain replied that he would let her choose for herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time, because he had respected her and had let her be in charge of her own life . . .

Some Interesting Anagrams

Snooze Alarms = Alas! No More Z's

Conversation = Voices Rant On

Slot Machines = Cash Lost in'em

The Meaning of Life = The fine game of nil

The eyes = They see

A telephone girl = Repeating "Hello"

A telescope = To see place

Fired = Fried

hated = death

Mother-in-law = Woman Hitler

The Detectives = Detect Thieves

A Gentleman = Elegant Man

A Decimal Point = I'm a Dot in Place

Debit card = Bad Credit

Allow Your Own Inner Light to Guide You

There comes a time when you must stand alone.

You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.

You must be willing to make sacrifices.

You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.

Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.

There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.

Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.

Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.

Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.

Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.

Break on through

Some days start the way they are supposed to.
But most days don’t.
Some times you know it right from the start.
But most times you don’t.

* * *

Today, right now, a new day begins. And I wonder how this day is going to turn out. I wonder what is in store for me and how it is going to go. There is no ‘rightfromthestart’ feeling right now. It is another ‘letstakeitasitcomes’ day for me.

I miss the days when you know what is going to happen right from the start. In the sense that, it may not be completely planned, but you know it right up front that this is the way the day is going to go. And that is a good feeling. And of course there are those days when you plan everything, and even then you get the feeling that this day may still not go the way you want it to. And it usually does not.

As this new day takes shape, it offers many wondrous things to do. Which of course will probably be completely passed on for the ordinary. And it is in this ordinary that birth is given to the amazing. The breaking through of the ordinary is what brings about the amazing. The ordinary is needed. So, we go about creating and dwelling in the ordinary in the hope that someday, we will break on through to the other side. And that side will bring us to the place where we want to be. To give us the days that we want. The days when things go the way they are supposed to and you take life the way you always wanted to.

The potential exists in every day. We just need to make it happen.

Words

Words - a Powerful Weapon provided to mankind.
It's up to the individual how best to exploit life with it.
Words influence people....

It can change lives - The effect depends on how words play with you. An encouraging word to someone who is down can encourage them to achieve their goal. A destructive word to the same can have negative effects.

Words are the most powerful drug used by mankind.
Use soft word sand hard arguments.
Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their "echoes" are truly endless!

Words:
The snow may look smooth and soft,
but the rocks underneath are sharp!
Courtesy - Master Mark Russell.

When beginnings are not beginnings

Sometimes, beginnings are not beginnings.

The start of something new does not have to mean change. It can be something that has been waiting to happen. And when it happens, it is expected. And because it is expected, it all falls into place. Coming together the way it is supposed to.

Of course, in reality, everything does not happen the way it is supposed to. It starts off the way you want it to, but then life takes over. When life takes over, other things happen. Other things that were waiting in the wings. Little unexpected surprises. Welcome surprises. What you have been waiting for comes together, in the most unexpected of ways.

Something Happened

Every once in a while something happens.

Something, that sparks off another thing. And in that little spark lies a big storm. And when you look back at it, you would have never thought at the moment that that little something happened, it was going to spark off a big storm. But if you had known then, you might have done something different, and that spark might not have been created.

And that brings about all the ‘what ifs’.

But these are not ‘what ifs’ in the way you normally look at ‘what ifs’. Usually in regret. The way you look at it here is in awe and wonder as to how things happened. And you are grateful for the chain of events. The chain of events, that brought about the spark that stirred up the storm. For if that storm had not happened, you would not be here. Now.

The Poetess & Her Story

Before the end
Began
The story was over
It died
A premature death
In the hands
Of the poetess
Whose craft was faulty
The story she told
Was not the story
She felt
And the story she felt
Was not the story
She wanted to tell
In her paradox
She muffled her emotions
And the end began
Before it was supposed to
And because that happened
Her characters
Came to life
And lived in the world
They were not supposed to
And the end was over
Before they
Could return
To the craft
Of the poetess
And the poetess
Gave them emotions
That they weren’t supposed
To feel
And things happened
That weren’t supposed
To happen
And in the end
That followed consequently
The poetess
Had to taste
A bitter blood
Mingled with
Her poisonous sweat
And as her imagination died
Her inspiration
Deserted her
Leaving her alone
And lonely
As she was before poetry

I Believe

I Believe -
That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I Believe -
Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care, for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill.
I Believe -
That my best friend and I can do anything and nothing and have the best time.
I Believe -
That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I Believe -
That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I Believe -
That money is a lousy was of keeping score.
I Believe -
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I Believe -
That you can keep going, long after you can't.
I Believe -
That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I Believe -
That no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I Believe -
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I Believe -
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back.
I Believe -
That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I Believe -
That maturity has more to do with what types of experience you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I Believe -
That sometimes when I am angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I Believe -
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I Believe -
That the people you care most in life are taken from you too soon.

Never Say Forever

Never say I love you
If you don’t really care..
Never talk about feelings
If they aren’t really there..

Never look into my eyes
If all you do is lie..
Never say hello
If you really mean goodbye..

Everything Happens For A Reason . . .

Sometimes people come into our life and you know right away that they were meant to be there to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life.

The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.


Create you own life and then go out and live it.

Footprints

Even after the journey is over long long ago
The footprints
Still intact in the heart

Just a thought

Some people say that
you don't know what you have
until you lost it,
but it wasn't like that for me.

I always knew
what I had,
I just never thought
I would lost it...

Feelings

I shed what's call feelings,
Long time ago,
But I could not kill it
When I saw the pitiful eyes of it,
It was shivering, Begging me
Not to leave it alone,
Told me that
It will never let anybody hurt me,
Anybody at all
Told me that I will be strong, But so soft though
Dint want to beleive,
How could I?
I wasn't even sure about myself,
I started walking alone.
But everyday when I turn back,
I see my feelings crawling behind me.
I will tell you the truth,
I turn back and see
Just to make sure -
Its coming behind me.....

Mozhi

A fUntastic movie!

Life without Girls.......

The result
Markets silent..
Streets empty..
The police at rest..
All mobile companies in loss..
No sms..
No Flowers..
No Valentine..
No Candles
No Perfumes..
All the men directed to Heaven . . .

Sunshine

Its been 24 years since my parents named me. But none until now has ever called me 'Sunshine'. Thanks dear Friend! This one is for u.

Just Three Words . . .

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words. When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have sourerd.
The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.

1. Let me help

When Good friends see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

2. I understand you.

People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your friend know - in so many little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.

3. I respect you

Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal. If you talk to children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

4. I miss you.

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

5. Maybe you're right.

This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication when you say "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting, "maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have an argument with someone, all you normally do is solidify the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the other person.

6. Please forgive me

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

7. I thank you.

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

8. Count on me

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."

9. I'll be there

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

10. Go for it

We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

B o n u s : 11. I love you

Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words: "I love you." Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is gone.

Mozhi

A movie in Tamil; meaning Language. I have not watched the movie but got to see few scenes from the movie. But I am very eager to watch the movie. I will definitely give it a shot once it is released in Bangalore.

From the trailer got to know that the story goes something like this:
There is this gal who is deprived of the power of hearing and speech. And this guy working in the music field falls in love with this gal. He falls in love with this gal even though he knows that she is deprived of the power of hearing and speech. He learns the sign language with which he can communicate better with her and also understand her better. He proposes to her and I am not sure how the story ends.

There was one scene from the trailer which actually touched me. The dialogue goes something like this. (Not very exact though)
He: When I see the moon I get reminded of a story which my mother had told me when I was small.
She: My mother has never told me a story.
He: If you miss someone a lot and look at the moon you can see them in the moon. I used to miss my grandma a lot! So when I was small I used to look at the moon and the grandma in the moon will resemble my grandma. Have you ever missed someone?
She: No.
He: Haven’t you missed anyone in this world at all?
She: No….

I was taken aback. Could there be someone who have all their dear family friends and loved ones close to them that they will not miss them at all? If yes then he/she is very lucky.

When I watched this I got reminded of my college days. In the night when I used to turn towards the sea it’s just me, the vast sea, the cool breeze and the beautiful moon. The feeling is too good.

The story also is very true. As I stayed in the hostel; used to miss my parents a lot. The moon gives you good company that you tend to forget all the loneliness in the world.

Don't Make Anyone Feel Small . . .

Do not belittle the other person. Do not make him feel small. Do not criticize him or find fault with him.

No one likes to be criticized. Look for good qualities in others and appreciate them. When you appreciate others, you draw out the best that is in them. Appreciate your friends, your loved ones, your parents, children. Never scold children. When you scold them, you stifle the life-force that is within them.

Mr.X asked a little boy:- "My child, what is your name?"

He answered:- "At school, they call me Ramesh. At home, I am called Ramesh-don't."

Mr.X could not understand. And he explained:- "At school they call me Ramesh. But whenever I am at home, they always tell me, Ramesh don't behave like this, Ramesh don't speak like this, Ramesh don't sit like this, Ramesh don't talk like this!"

Appreciate children. Appreciate your loved ones. Women have complained:- "There was a time when our husbands gave us many pledges, but all that has become part of history. Today, they pay no attention to us. They take us for granted."

Tonight, as you return to your homes, go and tell your loved one:- "Honey, where would I have been without you?" Those few, simple words can enact a miracle.

Life

Confused

How do I decide? Most of the things we decide are not what we know to be the best. We say yes, merely because we are driven into a corner and must say something.
I reject for no reason at all. All that I asked for is present but no nothing seems to have that spark. How do I know?
I am not in a position to give a proper reason to reject. Obviously they get wild and I need to pay for the damage.
I never knew it was this complicated. What do I tell them? How can I explain? Sometimes I think I should be here and other times probably there. I can give good reasoning to why I should stay here and why I should stay there also. But where is it finally going to be?
People get pissed off coz they don’t understand why I keep changing my decision. Yes I know you guys get tired but common it’s my life.In the fight for survival, a tie or split decision simply will not do.
And finally, try to find your deepest issue in every confusion, and abide by that.

A chance to start anew

How often we wish for another chance
To make a fresh beginning
A chance to blot out our mistakes
And change failure into winning.

It does not take a special time
To make a brand-new start,
It only takes the deep desire
To try with all our heart.

To live a little better
To always be forgiving.
To add a little sunshine
In a world for which we’re living.

Never give up in despair
Nor think you are through,
For there’s always a tomorrow,
A chance to start anew.

Unspeakable Memories

Silent unspeakable memories
Interesting Quotes -
Love is the history of a woman's life; it is an episode in man's.
Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship--never.
There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.
Successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person.
There is no spectacle on earth more appealing than that of a beautiful woman in the act of cooking dinner for someone she loves.

Wordsworth

A very apt name to the famous English Poet.
This weekend was clearing up stuff at home when I came across the slam book which was signed by my friends from college. Remembered each and every one of them as I was reading the book. But failed to remember some. There was one which caught my interest. He was a good old senior of mine. Ganesh... Some call him Gunzz... and some Gunny... These were some thing which he had to tell me:
U r the best judge of urself. No one can come close to it. - Good line
He also quoted Wordsworth:
"The woods are Lovely, dark & deep,
But you have Promises to Keep,
And Miles to go before you Sleep,
And Miles to go before you Sleep."
Something very apt to be written in the Slam Book.

What happened in the past makes people what they are now. Some people are trapped in the past and some are unstable because they lost their past. Look at the past, face it and come to grips with it... that's true internal strength.

Don't Hurt Anyone!

It only takes a few seconds to hurt people you love, and it can take years to heal.

Is that U?

Pinch.... Pinch...

Should I believe this?

Or…..

No no….

This is real…

I am not dreaming.

I am alive and yes wide awake!

I saw it just now.

I am very Happy.

Thank God!

I knew you were with me all along.

I don’t blame you for taking your time.

I am happy that it has happened. Finally!

Thank U!

Love While you Live!

Valentine's Special

Once, there was this guy, who was in love with a gal. She wasn't the most beautiful and

gorgeous but for him, she was everything.

He used to dream about her, about spending the rest of life with her. His friends told him,

"Why do you dream so much about her, when you don't even know if she loves you or not?

First tell her your feelings, and get to know if she likes you or not".

He felt that was the right way. The girl knew from the beginning, that this guy loves her.

One day when he proposed, she rejected him.

His friends thought he would take to alcohol; drugs etc. and ruin his life.

To their surprise, he was not depressed.

When they asked him how was it that he is not sad, he replied,

"'Why should I feel bad? I lost one who never loved me & she lost the one

who really loved and cared for her."

Never Cry for One Who Makes You Cry!

Fate

Are we all destined to do what we are doing?
Be where we are........
Have done what we have already done and regretting for.....
Is everything already written somewhere about our future?

He - She

She kept thinking about it over and over again.
She had never expected him to ...
But yes it was he who ...
But then why did he ...
She said that only out of jealousy...
But then she never got a chance to explain what happened.

Anger and jealousy can no more bear to lose sight of their objects than love.

He was angry and decided the plan.
It was planned too well for her not to believe it. Even after she was told that it was all mere acting she still dint believe it.
He was a genius. But she dint know that he would act this good.
She was shattered.

It is difficult to see the picture when you are inside the frame.

But then now she is happy for all that - Every problem has a gift for you in its hands.

Later she analyzed the situation...

What would she have done if she was in the same situation as him??

Perfectly right - The same way he did it.
But would not have acted like how he did... She would have ignored him totally.
That would be best way she could have punished him...
But not as severe as how he had done.

If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow. -- He and She.

My Blog

Some say it is haunting... - Thanks for the comment :)
Some don't say anything... - Silent Readers
Some had their own doubts.. (which were later clarified)...
But yeah a good friend of mine was perplexed... - What do I say scared is that the right word that I should use?
He said I look like a very cheerful person but...
He said he dint expect this from me..
But yeah I write this too my friend.
He said that I needed a BREAK ASAP.
Do you think this is the solution??
His reaction actually shocked me
I write what ever I feel like..

Traffic
Passing by
The sound lingers
Until replaced with another
Like memories that fade out
And then wait to be replaced
Sometimes the cycle breaks making memories eternal

...Thanks dear friend!